Finding Confidence Through Values and Purpose

Finding Confidence Through Values and Purpose

This week, I attended the Schreiber Institute for Women’s Leadership annual event: Celebrate! You may remember that I shared my experience attending in 2023 and 2024. Celebrate is an event focused on women’s leadership and career development. It was exciting to be back at The Weidner, this past Thursday, to hear new perspectives and advice.

During the event’s opening remarks, something was said that really stuck with me: “You can walk into any room with confidence if you know who you are, what your values are, and what your purpose is.” I’m paraphrasing, but this was impactful to hear. It was a beautiful reminder to show up authenticity.

Alicia Pelton‘s keynote speech also gave me a lot to think about. While sharing her personal story, she shared her three C’s of leading for change: Commitment, Choices, and Compassion.

Commitment: Simply put, you need to be committed to whatever you hope to accomplish. Consider what your values are and what your purpose is.

Choices: Based on your purpose and values, you have choices to make. Alicia reminded us that all choices do have consequences. It’s important to consider the impact of your actions.

Compassion: If you don’t consider the needs or well-being of others (or of yourself), you may be met with unnecessary friction and burnout. It’s important to have empathy and understanding as a leader.

Alicia also shared these thoughtful questions for all of us to ask ourselves:

  • What is your mission in this life?
  • Do you have values you live by?
  • Do you make choices that align with them?
  • How can you take one step?

I’m still thinking through how I’d concisely answer each of these questions. But, I will say, I find it especially important to align values and choices. Consistency in what you believe and the way you live will bring the most fulfillment. Each time you act according to your values, it’s like you’re keeping a promise to yourself.

Shoutout to the Schreiber Institute for Women’s Leadership for organizing another excellent event this year. I look forward to Celebrate 2026!

What’s your mission? What do you value? I would love to hear your thoughts in the comments or on Instagram. Let’s chat!

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